So I'm sitting at Westgate enjoying some Tully's coffee doing a little work the other day when I saw this woman, obviously waiting on someone, and I thought "What if some guy wanted to approach her?  What would he say?

Seriously ladies, what does he say to you?  It occurred to me that in this day and age you have to keep your guard up like a Republican at a Moveon.org meeting. . . or a Republican candidate at a Republican presidential debate. What can the nice guys say that would give them a chance to show within the span of 10 seconds (4 hours in the mind of the guy) that he’s thinking with the head on top of his neck?

Maybe it’s time we start brainstorming together to help us understand each other better? Make it easier to meet each other without the interference of bad blind dates set up by married friends or the tedious mind-numbing process of online dating where 90% of the pictures posted are from 20 years ago and the information in their profile leaves out a few things like a prison record, kids, and that they’re still married (that a story for another time).

I’m gonna get the conversation started with this suggestion. . . .  ladies is ok to approach us. . . in fact it’s way awesome.  You should try it sometime, then you’ll understand what it’s like from the guys point of view.  Like I asked “What do we say to you?”  you already know the answer to the question.

Dating doesn’t have to be hard, and shouldn’t be, let’s make it easier on each other.  Guys what would you like to add?  Ladies, what are your suggestions?  Leave your comment below